If you are experiencing game crashes when you try multiplayer, read this.
This is an error with the Advocate Network that crashes your game. There is a fix for this, that resets your Network every time you log in; Open Origin > Library > TF|2 > Settings > Game properties ...
Heyo! Someone in the EA forums found a way to add launch options through the EA app. I'll have it linked here. The command you want to add is: +communities_enabled 0