I think that I have translated what you posted correctly in my head so I'll try to answer your question, there is no one on this forum with the power to extend the first act of the event only EA can do that and I personally doubt that they will do that just for you as it would throw out all the release timings for stuff in the event, if you simply can't graft hard enough to get enough hats then I believe that you will need to use donuts to get those items, if the items you want require bows/baubles then from my understanding you will still be able to craft those duringact 2, but if iI've not answered your question by misunderstanding what you asked or have got something wrong I'm sure someone will be along shortly to correct my error.
EDIT : ninja'd once again by the mighty Neo :)