If its not for you, its not for you.
The temp removal of a large majority of my roads doesn't hurt me or annoy me too much. And I'm fairly sure my neighbors would complain to me if it bugged them a bunch - but the roads I keep tend to be at the landing - so they probably don't notice too much.
Also - not to be rude, but I play for me, helping my neighbors is a side-bonus... if anyone wants to claim they play for their neighbors they can, but meh on my believing you - you play for your enjoyment of the game too. I try to help them - but I'm not being put out to make it "better" for you - skip me or drop me if needed, I'm a good neighbor - I'll find less picky ones.
And like its been said, the removal of the roads makes it easier after the event to integrate all the new junk.... some of us like it, some don't no biggie, certainly wouldn't remove people for it- how silly.