Matchmaking

Well, you're kind of answering your own question but not understanding it. Fighting games and not a fun casual experience or something to wind down with unless your such a high skilled player that the flow of the game is on autopilot. 

Not being mean, but it sounds like you are playing the wrong game for the experience you desire. Fighting games take some level of dedication. Getting better on where your weak until you're no longer weak.

I understand critiquing the people that spam Takedowns and ground grappling. I don't like people that spend hours doing it to get wins. I don't think it's fun or challenging. But I still learned to tap a lot of those goofballs out even fighting with a lower level fighter