Hello sir. I dont work here but ive worked tech support for years. If you dont provide as much as your system specification in a legible manner, dont expect anyone bending over backwards to give support.
The SteamVR option is viable and working. I have a RTX 3080 10gb and had been crashing at every other stage because of VRAM starvation. I found out setting everything to ultra low or low and set the resolution per eye at 26% it would stop crashing most of the time.
I've been working for about a month on a engine.ini file with some tweaks that help us poor WMR users and hopefully alleviating some VRAM issues. So far i was able to up the settings to mostly Low instead of ultra low, with decent frame rates.
[TextureStreaming]
PoolSizeVRAMPercentage=128
[/script/engine.renderersettings]
r.AntialiasingMethod=2
r.BloomQuality=2
r.Color.Max=0.94
r.Color.Mid=0.49
r.DefaultFeature.AntiAliasing=1
r.DefaultFeatureMotionBlur=False
r.EyeAdaptation.LensAttenuation=0.70
r.FastBlurThreshold=0
r.FilmGrain=0
r.NGX.DLAA.Enable=true
r.NGX.DLSS.Enable=1
r.NGX.DLSS.EnableAutoExposure=1
r.NGX.DLSS.PreferNISSharpen=1
r.NGX.DLSS.Preset=10
r.NGX.DLSS.Reflections.TemporalAA=0
r.NGX.DLSS.Sharpness=0.25
r.NGX.DLSS.WaterReflections.TemporalAA=0
r.NGX.Enable=1
r.NGX.EnableOtherLoggingSinks=0
r.NGX.LogLevel=0
r.PostProcessAAQuality=0
r.ReflectionCaptureResolution=256
r.Reflections.Denoiser.TemporalAccumulation=0
r.Reflections.Denoiser=0
r.SceneColorFormat=3
r.SceneColorFringeQuality=0
r.SSR.MaxRoughness=0.01
r.SSR.Quality=1
r.Streaming.FullyLoadUsedTextures=0
r.Streaming.FullyLoadUsedTextures=False
r.Streaming.LimitPoolSizeToVRAM=0
r.Streaming.PoolSize=0
r.TemporalAA.Algorithm=0
r.TemporalAA.HistoryScreenpercentage=125
r.TemporalAA.Quality=2
r.TemporalAA.Upsampling=0
r.TemporalAA.Upscaler=0
r.TemporalAACatmullRom=1
r.TemporalAACurrentFrameWeight=0.15
r.TemporalAAFilterSize=0.10
r.TemporalAAPauseCorrect=1
r.TemporalAASamples=2
r.TextureStreaming=True
r.Tonemapper.GrainQuantization=0
r.Tonemapper.Sharpen=1.65
r.Tonemapper.Sharpen=2
r.TranslucencyVolumeBlur=0
r.Upscale.Quality=5
r.Upscale.Softness=0
Good luck to you.