Totally agree and as all time PC player I have rarely seen legit console player "playing with their friends" in PC lobbies. Actually it happened just lately when Console cheating totally got out of hand and people started posted in official LFG discord that they just escape console cheating situation by going into PC lobbies that for legit console players are just nightmare = combination of lower FPS + controller vs mnk drawbacks.
But all in all it is clear as day when you see console icon in PC lobby and person is just clearly on MNK, usually top or near top squad clearly cheating in most cases, at best abusing some sort of game exploit that gives them aim assist on MNK.
Respawn just turns a blind eye to it.
Plus this change of cross-play was highly praised after many cried about it for a while back in early seasons <10, and I am quite sure it is going nowhere.
I wonder if PC cheaters actually have cracked the code of fooling anti-cheat that does not run on console and manage to basically disable anti-cheat while playing on PC.