Ideas
For those of you experiencing this bug.. Do this in between matches, or at the start. Go to Options > Graphics > Edit. From here, check what type of preset you have and remember it. Now, click on it and change it one direction or the other, then back again. You will see the VRAM usage in the lower right of the screen go from overfull , back down to where it needs to be.
For EA and developers... This should be hint on how to correctly fix this bug. When VRAM gets to the point that it is over what is specified by a person's system, there should be a script that will do this for us automatically if you can't actually fix this bug in program, at least as a patch until one is found. It needs to remember a person's configuration, then switch temporarily to a different preset, then back again, almost seemlessly. Come on Devs, let's get to it. This has been a problem from the outset and should never have been released with this kind of problem. Thank you.