party members not getting put into game when host searches and finds game

This has been happening to me since launch. I brushed it off thinking they'd address it by now, but numerous updates later it only seems to be getting worse. I played maybe 3 or 4 actual matches last night (queued for far more) and didn't join the game maybe 80% of time. This caused my friends to have to back out of the battle royale like 4 times, leaving the one random player they were queued with completely on their own. So it's not just screwing over the affected player, but squads and team balance as well.