Re: Full Freindship and Romance boths sims bff's married not soul mates

This is what I find online:

SOULMATE ASPIRATION

Total Satisfaction Gained: 4,325

Reward Trait: Companion You get special interactions to calm situations between your Sim and their Spouse.

Soulmate Aspiration Objectives:

Milestone I: Amore Amateur

• Have a Boyfriend or Girlfriend (50)
• Go on 2 Dates (75)

Milestone II: Marriage Material

• Become an Adult (0)
• Be Married to BFF (350)

Milestone III: Love Handler

• Earn Silver on 2 Dates with Spouse (600)
• Achieve Soulmate Relationship with Spouse (750)

Milestone IV: Soulmate

• Perform 50 Romantic Gestures with Spouse as Soulmates (1500)
• Earn Gold on 3 Dates with Spouse (1000)
  
  Source: http://www.carls-sims-4-guide.com/aspirations/
  
  At what milestone are you? I think 3, and have you completed the silver dates with your spouse?