I have 3 more friends but we could not play together

I have 9 mates play with me as a team. In BF5, I could use a party(4 players) to join the game and then picked up one person to jump out of the party and ask others who wait outside  to join that guy's game so that 9 mates could play together in one server.

But in 2042, party is not a square any more, the solution we used in BF5 is not working any more, because the persons who wait outside of the game are hard to john the game, they could usually see a waiting screen and then jump back to the beginning, it looks like a loop, they need to try again and again, although sometime they succeed but every math you have to search a new server to start a game, so this good game design nearly dismember my team.

Not every one only have 3 less friends to play with him/her,  especially Battlefield community members