Why are jets worse at A2A than attack helicopters?

The Rock Paper Scissors in the sky is out of whack. Fighter jet gets to make a pass at a helicopter, missile is decoyed, and main gun doesn’t do enough damage. Attack chopper gets its decoys back and damage repaired by the time the fighter can turn around to make another pass.

Plus Attack chopper gets two shots at the fighter, one oncoming and one leaving.

Either fighter main gun needs a damage tweak, and/or second missile should be available quicker. 

Don’t get me started on how much damage the transports can tank from a fighter.