They finally answered me. Two steps I Hadn't tried. not sure if one does the trick but delete the save game data locally for battlefield and also go into network advanced settings on the xbox and clear the alternate mac address. Boom, now I'm playing laggy battlefield with everyone else and all is well. Good luck to you.
Well, sadly I still cant get into a game. Stuck on the "waiting for players to join" screen. Talk about getting ripped off. At least in Call of Duty I can play the single player/story mode. This game didnt bother to have a story mode. #EA stole my money. I would like it back.
