BF2042 server connect issue

So I've got my Xbox series x hardwired into my router that's getting me ~900 mbps download. I've got the Google DNS 8.8.8.8 & 8.8.4.4, port 3074, automatic IP address, and I can't get past the starting screen where it connects to the servers. I've reset my modem/router many times, called my IP and had them reset on their end, to no avail. 

 Here's the strange thing, 

 I have 2 routers from 2 different internet providers, one being century link that gets me 10-12mbps, and my new one I just got a month ago from a local company that gets me 900mbps. I can play BF all day on century link but it's glitchy most of the time and makes it unplayable at points. But I can connect to the servers without fail. Once I switch my ethernet cord from the century link router to the new router with the new service, I cant get in. Every single other game works fine in matchmaking on the new service besides battlefield. Any ideas to what the deal is?