It's 2023 and the bf2024 network stability is still laughable

@DantesFinest are you playing on pc or console ? Try to turn off crossplay and see how that works for you. For some reason I cannot play with crossplay on. It gives me crazy delay, buttons not working - being killed when behind cover - pretty much same as you explain here.
Down side - not so many servers / games. But when I do get into a game - night and day difference !