Thanks for your reply.
It seems we are in agreement on pretty much everything! And reading through other posts most people are saying similar things.
On another note I played BF4 yesterday too. It is probably just as fast in fairness. BF3 is slower and bad company 2 more still.
I don't think it's the inherent speed which is the issue. But something does feel off. I think perhaps it's how the weapons handle.
Let's hope they listen to the community and not get overconfident with the large amount of preorders and see this as "the game doesn't need changing"