I've been playing a lot of 2042, and it's wild how bad the desync is. It seems consistently a lot worse with Console players.
The reduced recoil thing should outrage the PC community. I've lost faith in the gaming community, not that I had much to begin with. I can't believe how complacent people have become. The average sentiment on Steam is that "it's no big deal", "PC players have the better movement though", and a bunch of other brain dead takes.
The FPS market sucks so much right now, and a lot of it has to do with the existence of Crossplay.