EA stole $225 from me

Bought 3 copies of this game once we found out there were hardcore servers for my family. Now you say I can't even play laggy hardcore community servers because you get no xp now??? Because bot farms??? what does that have to do with the community hardcore servers??? FFS just make official true hardcore servers or give me my money back. I purchased a product, enjoyed the product, then you take it away, change it completely, and that's ok? This was supposed to be BF return to glory and it was amazing....then you #### all over the hardcore community....again.... Please refund me $225 for selling me a 3 products that you then took away!