The game isn't fun anymore... why do they keep messing it up?

Since launch I was very impressed with how fast they tried to smooth things out. Things were getting slowly better. VERY slowly.. now every update makes the game a million times worse. I do not know if I can play it much longer. Every one of my friends already left and said it is trash. I am very loyal to BF though and loyal to EA. Even I am getting at my wits ends. People want to get up in the morning or get off of work and play to relax. If every time we log in there is something changed and something new we can never actually enjoy ourselves. By the time we start to enjoy something .. here comes another change.. making it impossible to continue to have fun. Why does EA keep changing things, making levels that are getting increasingly atrocious, while causing bugs that stop loyal people from playing and having fun. I play constantly and I am realllllly tired of wasting my time trying to familiarize myself with the game for it to change as soon as I get a foothold. EA is sabotaging its own customer base.. anyone know why? The new levels and new update really screwed it up for a lot of people. EA has to do better.