Totally agree. Four us play and and this game is no where near as good as the beta now. Feels more like black ops than battlefield.
Battlefield is not supposed to feel as quick as COD or BO, but it is a case of spawn die spawn die spawn dies spawn die.
The maps need 24 players aside not 32 for the size of them as there are just too many choke points full of players. We tried creating this in portal to better success but now they have removed the bots it's a frustrating rate to get a game full of people going.
On a personal note, I play as a medic and the defibs are stupid. The lots of other medics just run around tapping the button like some kids game. Personally I think you should have to charge them up so you can't just spam it, and also this would give the players 100% health and not send them straight back into the next bullet that kills them instantly due to a 50% health revive.
Of course there are many many more reasons why this game is frustrating, another waste of money unfortunately when it looked so hopeful to start with.