Not all players in party load into match

Have tried many different configurations for this and yet we still have issues, have even had issues solo.  When we start the matchmaking, our characters stand up but one if not more of us will not load into the game at all, just stand there, then it will say waiting for party leader.

We have tried with all of us with crossplay on AND off, we all have open NAT, more than the majority of us have gigabit wired internet connection, we swap party leaders, leave and re join, etc but nothing works.  

I have had it happen solo as well, I tried to load into BR DUOS, now my crossplay was off because I am a firm believer that console players should NEVER have to interact with a PC player in a game such as this but thats neither here nor there right now, but I tried 3 times to load and it would pretend to load and then the matchmaking button would re-appear.  I have personally uninstalled and reinstalled 3 times now hoping something will work

I will attach the video of myself trying to do the DUOS and watching it fail 3 times in a row.