account email unable to verify in order to then change my email

When I first made an Origin account I used the email "[edit: email address removed]" but soon after I deleted that email and created a new one. The new email is "[edit: email address removed]" which I currently have linked to a playstation network account that I use to play battlefield 3 on. I wish to merge my xbox live associated tag within the "Polak209" origin account into the [edit: email address removed], due to the fact that the "[edit: email address removed]" emial is no longer active, thus I am not able to verify that email which would then allow me to altogether change it. Please let mwe know what I have to do to stop logging into this Polak209 origin account which has an inactive email associated with it! Thank you for taking the itme to read this. Again, I wish to have my playstation network tag and xbox live gamer tag both associated with my origin account which is linked to my current "[edit: email address removed]" email.