i had the same problem, could not install with a physical disc. tried to download a digital copy of it and the speed was 140kbps average. talked to a rep witch none of that helped. i tried installing the game on an old laptop and it worked. copyed the data off the laptop to my desktop and it works sorta. i can play campaine just fine offline. but multiplayer online just gives me an error saying i dont have origin installed whitch i do. so im still waiting to play a multiplayer match.
First of all, u need to deactivate the origin on your old laptop as BF4 only work on 1 PC.
If you install on the first PC, then only that PC have the right to access online as when you install BF4, it will request you to key in product code, that is the time when it bond the game to ur PC. Unless you deactivate the old PC, you wont be able to play online on the other PC. This is what normally all the charged online game do to prevent people exploit the issue of copying a folder to other PC. The code of your BF4 will act as a online game pass. Without it surely you wont be able to play online
