Connecting Origin ID to Xbox Live profile
So I have an xbox one and a live account which I have had for sometime, I have played battlefield 3 and two on xbox 360 online and when I load battlefield 4 on my xbox one and it says press A to start an Origin's window pops up and tells me to create an ID that will be used on all ea and origins games, so I already freaking have one and when I type the ID I already have into the stupid box it says already in use!!!! I have spent over two freaking hours trying to get this resolved, I have spent over half an hour with a game advisor who said I needed to link my outlook.com email address and my hotmail.com email address to my origins account but HELLLLOOOO outlook and hotmail are the same exact freaking thing!!!!! the front part of both of those addresses are the same because microsoft has merged hotmail, outlook, and live email address so they are all the same now!!!! So what the hell do I have to do to play this nearly 70 dollar game online??? Can someone with a brain please help me???
Thanks,
and sorry for all the angry frustration, I am fairly tech savy at least I think I am enough to usually figure things out and this is driving me freaking nuts!