My Downloads restart if I pause the download and close Origin

I can't update or download anything on origin, this wouldnt be so big of a deal if i had something othrer than a 35-50 KB/s connection, the new BF4 updates was at 45% and then BF3 decided to automatically say i want to update as well, Bf4 paused, then I started it again, was loading the update at 45% then once it started downloading it went to 13... this was 4 hours in... Origin. f*** you. i expect EA to screw up game releases but when i CANT EVEN PLAY ONE THAT HAS BEEN OUT FOR TWO YEARS DUE TO YOUR USELESS BLOATWARE.