Dragon age origins DLC locations not on map (2014)

Right... I have dragon age orogins recently downloaded directly from origin (when they offered it for free).  I installed four DLC's (Darkspawn chronicles, stone prisoner, wardens keep and return to ostagar).  All four show up in the downloaded content secion in game as working and the first one (darkspawn) works fine, ive played and finished it and got the reward but the other three are not showing the corisponding locations on the map... the blurb for them all shows up in the journal including the instructions on how to access them but the locations are not actually on the map.  i have spent two days trying to find a fix but every fix i have found has failed due to being for the cd/steam versions or asking me to run a file called 'DAOU_UpdateAddinsXML.exe' and then  a file called'DAUServiceSetup.exe'.. unfortunately neither of these files exist!!! PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME THEY KNOW HOW TO FIX THIS?!

just in case you are going to suggest contacting ea help.. i have been trying... in fact i am 45 mins into my fourth attempt at getting a live chat advisor lol!