Game a bit too realistic

I’m driving for rb with Daniel riccardo. He has a perfect race always but when I drive it’s horrible. Just drove Japan in my driver career and I’m sitting p4 starting in p9 so I’ve made 5 places. Decided to pit late cause they said there was gonna be rain and to wait it out until the rain starts to put me on hards. I pit and they have trouble with the left rear tyre. Nothing too bad come out 16th. 2 laps later the rain is still going and they say “mate it might be good to come back to the pits and put on intermediates” so I wait for everyone else to and then pit. I’m p2 when I go into the pits and I come out with a good stop. I come out p17 and start racing again but i realise the grip is horrible so I look. I’m on mediums. They tell me to pit again and put on intermediates, the person behind me is 40 seconds behind, so I do. They then proceed to do a 12 second pit stop cause they couldn’t get the tyres on and I come out 19th. At this point 19th is last. And you’ll never guess. They put on soft tyres. I finish the race dead last and without my front or rear wings and a tyre on its last legs due to no grippiness. I realize you want to help us make the game realistic but come on ea!!!