Co-op bad ping my friend if I'm host

Unrealistically poor connection in co-op matches. When my friend and I try to play a co-op match, this happens in every match. If I am the host, then I have a ping of 10, and my friend has a ping of 130. If he is the host, then he has a ping of 10, and I have 131.
We tried to play in different modes (UltimateTeam Friendlies, Division Rivals in 1 team, Seasons).
How it's possible? If we both have an excellent connection individually and only when we try to play a cooperative match does one of us get such a high ping. My friend and I play on PC.
Guys, I am waiting your response!