@RadioShaqs but it's nothing to do with the controller, the whole game is delayed, my AI etc it feels awful to control, like someone is constantly holding my players back. My AI attempt automatic interceptions when the ball is already past them, so basically makes them useless as they don't just miss the ball but have to recover from making an unnecessary attempt to get the ball.
Friendlies might be p2p I know they used to be, but again the delay happens when I connect to EA servers so won't matter. My opponents connection doesn't matter they don't get the delay.
Unless they have the same problem, Delay from the servers.
if the gameplay was the same for both players in the same match there wouldn't be half the complaints on here.