Who has delayed gameplay ?

If it’s a server issue everyone will have it. Since your opponent doesn’t experience it this is more than likely on your end. 

You can have ea troubleshoot your connection. You can get your isp score and match history from here. In game you can turn on the online input overlay. 

This will show two controllers on screen. Push a button or move a stick you will see the controller on the left light up as your local connection. Count how many seconds till the right controller on screen matches it. That is your server connection controller. So if you have delay you would be able to count 4 seconds between controllers on screen. 

Thx man, i will try

what is isp score ? 

and how to get ea to troubleshoot connection ?

Here is ea explaining how to do the tests on here. 

https://forums.ea.com/discussions/fc-25-technical-issues-en/ea-servers-unavailable/12074594

Cool, will check it.

i just did the one with the two controller overlay. Very hard to tell but seems like there is a slight delay from one controller to the other

The closer they are the less delay you have. The father they are apart the worse your delay. Some on here have 4 seconds of delay. That would be unplayable. More times than not most find out they don’t have delay. 

You can always post the video and connection scores and show ea how much delay you have. 

KaverHansen92​ to answer your question, A LOT of us.. the forum is packed with gameplay complaints.. slow, heavy, delayed rubbish