Why not get rid of hackers and cheaters pc?

Indeed, just a few minutes ago I got into a match, opponent managed to just pass through my team and score on a breakaway...sure, one time, ok. I equalize, and they pause their game, nothing happens for a while, suddenly my quick tactics start changing by themselves and then my screen gets stuck on where it shows you highlights while you are waiting for the opponent to also unpause the game, nothing happens for a long time before the game goes back to normal just before halftime, and I am now down 1-3, second half starts and opponent immediately pauses and the same thing happens again except this time I get kicked from the match for not actively controlling my players....wtf?

Could be a bug, but with such suspicious timing I cannot help but feel extremely frustrated and since EA wants to make things easy for themselves, you can only report people for offensive club names (which like all of maybe 2 people care about) so there is no way to get them to investigate.

I dont dare to post the opponents name either (even if only to try figuring out if this was actually all because of a bug or not), Ill probably be accused of harrassment or something...

EDIT: As said, it is very frustrating and honestly it could just as well have been a bug, but all these circumstances dont really help to ease the frustration. Thankfully I dont think I was penalized apart from losing and the match not counting for EVO and such though.