Hello there,
well I´ve seen on youtube that it´s possible to activate some "gay" dialogues with kaidan from ME1. I was wondering how it´s possible to get that.
I don´t want to be a woman with the male shepard´s face. I want the male shepard to have a romance with Kaidan in ME1. It really looks like possible as I´ve seen it.
Thank for your help
It's only possible if you modify some game files. The only official romance options for Male Shepard are Ashley and Liara. Kaidan becomes a romance option in ME3, however.
Mark Meer, the voice of Male Shepard, recorded all of Female Shepard's unique lines to make sure they wouldn't miss anything, but the Kaidan romance dialogue was not meant to be in the game. It is, however, still in the game files, which means you can unlock it through some tweaking: http://social.bioware.com/1517619/blog/47401
Keep in mind that this is unofficial and won't carry over into Mass Effect 2.
