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Mass Effect 3 Origin overlay is not working
I have read a fair amount of posts with issues similar to mine (most of them are from around 2015 or earlier) and it seems that in the past these issues have been resolved by Origin updates this has ...
For anyone who might be experiencing similar issues I have found a fix that pretty much helped with any problem I had on the technical side.
Said fix being forwarding the UDP Port 3659 to my PC. (yes as in with my router)
Now I hate how that worked and question why it did at all but hey it did.
Thank you again @holger1405 for trying to solve this with me and maybe this might help in future or it just gives closure ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ who knows.
