Re: Is the Citadel DLC part of Mass Effect's canon?
Personally I don't think the quality of the writing in the Citadel DLC deviates much from the rest of the game. The tone does, but it's supposed to; they're on shore leave and having a party, it's not a setting we've seen these characters in.
Ultimately it's as canon as the rest of the optionally playable game, which is to say if you don't like how it plays out you can skip it in your playthroughs, and then it's not "canon" to your Shepard.