Xbox games seem lagged or manipulated

I was looking at my wins and losses because I play on ps 5, just played some on Xbox, they’re lopsided most of my losses 90% of them are coming from people on Xbox….

Has anyone had the problem as well?

I just feel like either all the better players on Xbox or they have a better chance of bypassing securities to cheat? 

The last game I just feel like I was lagged, his goalie was making ridiculous saves, when I would get to the offensive on my team would act stupid….. and slow!!!

Just curious