Pvz BFN

I've seen some people with the same issue where they can't get into games because of a lost connection but here is my predicament. It seems like every EA game I play I have these connections issues, for example all the battlefield titles I play I have issues getting into games unless I join a friend that is already in one. This seems to be the only way I am able to play. This goes for the garden warefare franchise too. The first garden warefare I can't recall any issues but the 2nd installment gave me the most problems. I would go through the portal to join a match and get put right back into the hub. This carried over to Battle For Neighbourville. I would like to know a solution because I can't keep buying these titles if I am unsure whether or not I will be able to play or not. I've tried to changes my DNS, I am on Lan and also have restarted my router and playstation with a power off but nothing works. I really love these games because I grew up with them so if there is anyone who has a solution please help me. I'm running out of options.