Login credentials and issues with linking PSN ID

I’m having issues and have been for the past few years trying to link my PSN ID to my EA account and it’s been a constant issue for quite some time and I’ve reset my password numerous times, the account is apparently connected to some random EA email I never made and I’m wanting to get my current email to be apart of my account for my PSN ID. I don’t want to have to create a new PSN ID just to play “Skate.” Or any game I have bought by EA. This is the only time I feel I’ve had enough where I need to ask for help and hope that someone in the IT Department or something from EA can private message me and help me with this situation. I’ve reset my password numerous times but I’ve also gotten things saying my accounts connected to another email that I don’t have at all. Never made an EA only email so I need to get some way to fix that from EA itself.