Hey Tony, thanks for the reply but my brother and I are both connected via ethernet cable to our modem so, this is not the issue. I recently spoke to one of the technical support workers and he told me to disable origin in game to solve the issue. I have only played one game so far on this method but so far it has worked, some more extensive testing needs to be done though. Here's the instructions that he gave me if anyone else is having this issue:
Disabling Origin In Game
1. Click on Origin on the top left.
2. Click on Application Settings.
3. From the left side menu, click on Origin In Game.
4. Un-tick the checkbox for Enable Origin in Game.
5. Go back to your Games Library. Right click the icon for your game and click on Game Properties
6. Tick the checkbox for Disable Origin in Game for this game.
7. Click on Apply.