Thanks, Craven! This is my first time maneuvering the dead, for the most my focus has been on developing the living. I have plans to add a lower level to my graveyard to house the urns; I just don't know how to find them unless they are on a public property like in BB's world or LN's.
I'm wayyyy too soft to kill a Sim, so building my own personal graveyard isn't likely to happen, I'll just stick with remodeling whichever 'resting place' the world came with. Good to know about the "Pick Up Tombstone" feature. As you can tell, I don't have much (any :( ) experience with the deceased of the game, beyond resurrecting the Tragic Clown for a reincarnation story-line I'm planning on doing (eventually), my hands-on experience is nil!