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Ornkal
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8 years ago

Party Question

How does one get a successful party? I've read that if the property is clean, food is available, socialization happens and there are fun things to do, the party can be successful. I'm slightly confused as to why some of my parties are successful and others aren't. I'm not upset, just curious and wonder if anyone here might know why. :)

Here are some examples:

In one of Fern and Preston's alternate lives, they got married on the beach. I decorated the lot myself and it was full of fun things, such as an ice-cream stand, tables for eating at, a wedding arch, a chocolate fountain, a bonfire, a dance floor... pretty much anything beach-related and wedding-related I could think of. They invited friends, with whom they had pretty high relationships, and as soon as everyone was there, I clicked the arch for the vows to be exchanged. None of the guests watched the wedding, instead opting to swim. Before the vows were complete, most of the sims were running off, saying that they had a terrible time. I can't remember now since it was a while ago, but I'm pretty sure they got married on Leisure Day. I'm not sure why that party was such a failure.

Fern and Preston also tried to throw a gift-giving party on Snowflake Day and no one showed up. They each had a few friends and even at least one best friend. No matter how many times I restarted that day, no sim showed up.

Fern and Preston had bad party luck during their alternate lives. :P

During this latest version of their lives, they're attending university. Preston threw a bonfire party at The Point. Fern cooked tofu dogs twice because she burned them on her first try. The guests ate the burnt tofu dogs (instead of the perfectly good ones next to them), interacted with the bonfire and danced to music from a small boombox. Fern and Preston were distracted by the beautiful view of the stars from there and ignored their guests for a night of starry romance. The party was a huge success.

Because The Point is soooo beautiful in the autumn, Preston threw a costume party on Spooky Day there. Fern was off doing her own thing, but Preston brought food and invited everyone to eat. He talked to each of his guests at least once and danced with them. The bonfire was lit and there was music. The party was a huge failure, for some reason.

Has anyone ever gotten stressed about playing a day through perfectly? I did about this one day, for some reason. I wanted it to be the best day I could make it. So I redid the costume party at The Point about three times with the same result.

Finally, I decided to just throw it at the house they were renting. Again, Fern was doing her own thing, but I had her set some food out on the counter for the first guest who showed up and turn the music on. The guests were at the house alone for at least a half an hour. Preston arrived late because he was in class (and I should've scheduled the party for an hour later) and his needs were low. He ignored his guests to shower and use the toilet. He broke the toilet and when he finally told everyone to eat, the food was spoiled. By the time I noticed, everyone was already almost done eating it. Everyone was nauseous. Preston only had the time to speak with two guests before everyone was leaving. I saw all the guests standing around and yawning. I expected the party to be a failure, but it didn't bother me this time since I can understand why. This version of the party was certainly entertaining for me to play through and I was prepared to accept this failure party and move onto the next day. But it was a success. The party was le-gend-ary.

I'm a little confused. :P Anyone gave any ideas about this, or any similar experiences to share?

Also thanks for reading this.

3 Replies

  • It's difficult to say what the exact formula is for a successful party. Some of this is more art than science. But a big part of it is that guests must have improved social, hunger, fun, etc. mood levels when they leave than when it started. It doesn't matter so much if you talk to your guests or argue with them (though I wouldn't necessarily recommend fighting) and the lot looks pretty to them, although those are a good start, it matters what the sims manage to do with it all. I find that encouraging group activities -- dancing, games where 2-4 sims can be involved, hot tubbing, etc. tends to work out better than greeting them and leaving them to make their own fun.

    For parties that have a specific purpose -- birthdays (no cake age-up = failure), weddings, exchanges of presents for Snowflake Day, an important meal for the harvest one, the sims must notice that the purpose has been fulfilled or the party will always be a failure. On the wedding one, it does sound like the Leisure Day pushes to go swimming and just relax were overwhelming the pushes to watch the wedding ceremony, so as far as the sims swimming were concerned, they left the lot where the party was officially to be in the water before they got to see what they came there for and were really only "at" the party for a very short time. Not sure what the intended goal of a Spooky Day party is, I haven't thrown one of those in years because I too often get costume failures of some sort that cause the party to just evaporate before it's really begun.

    On the one where no one showed up, sometimes that means they were busy someplace else in the world at the time and sometimes it indicates bad routing on the world lot. One way around that is to invite some or many of the guests over socially so that they are already on the lot one sim hour before the party is scheduled to begin. That way they can't all be "too busy" to bother showing up.
  • The Legendary Host LTR helps a lot with parties. I usually try to get that for any sim who throws a party.

    I did once have a party where no one showed up. IIRC, I used NRaas MC to invite over the guests one by one instead. So, no actual party but they came over and hung out anyways.
  • Thanks for the information and suggestions, guys!

    Igazor, that helps explain why some parties are successful and others aren't. Their sink breaks during every other party and everyone usually goes home before I can get it fixed and cleaned. That would lower their mood since they came to the party. And now I know not to throw parties other than a pool party on Leisure Day. I just thought it would guarantee all guests would be available for the wedding, you know? And thanks for the tip for when no one shows up at the party.

    I forgot about the Legenday Host LTR. Thanks for reminding me, TreyNuts. Also I like that the guests can't get out of hanging out with you. :P

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