I have a feeling, he is gone for good. I should have resetsim last night. It didn't work today. Where do I see the family tree?
My sim did not get pregnant when he was abducted, although that would have added an insane twist. With the 5 babies, I was up to 8 people in the home.
How far into the legacy were you able to max charisma? I think that will be the hardest thing to do.
Oh and when the rules say something like (business degree) does that mean the sim just needs to choose that degree to meet the requirement to build that?