@DaletheSim: The super patch does not care about the version you have installed. It just installs all files new while the incremental one checks on the files you have right now. They need to be match a certain state so you don't install the wrong one. Incremental patches only installs the files which have changed while the super patch installs everything fresh (hence the size).
@michellehilbrand: Thanks for that info
@chutton88: Could you please answer the questions in the second post
@Juliana01: Hm. What's your operating system ?
@prettyminotaur: I see we got that covered :)
@bored_1: Twallan found that. It should run in the background and work similar to what twallan was doing in overwatch all along. I don't know how it works in detail but I guess it checks if you have any stuck Sims somewhere and resets them if you do. This should run nightly. It's definitely not something manual and I guess we need to see how it works out for people that don't want to use Overwatch.
@CaruTempestarii: I'll add
@Lunellagirl: Sounds like the relationship bug that has been in the game all along going haywire. Problem is, I don't think they can or will fix that. Only solution I have for you is to use Overwatch to see if it can repair some of the damage done and MasterController (not updated yet) to do the rest manually. I do not think that any patch can repair already broken relationships but that's just my opinion of course.