Re: Shipping Order has not come in.
Only EA can handle account issues like lost registration codes, recovering passwords, changing email addresses, purchasing/refunds, etc. Here is a link to contact them: https://help.ea.com/contact-us
Also, here's a post on how to navigate the contact page in case it's confusing: http://sims3.crinrict.com/en/2012/10/how-to-contact-ea.html (Just so you know there is no longer an email option, only live chat and phone.)
They are not going to respond to here on the forums.
Best of luck.