No it was an npc. I might have tested that part modded, I'll have to recheck. Are Toddlers not invited anywhere by default now? I was told that they could spawn at parks before recent updates.
I tested in my game again unmodded with an npc toddler who was a friend and definitely could invite the toddler to the pool and not the park and you can see why in the tunings. The pool venue leads to the generic swimmer job in the the invite over section and allows toddlers in the pctyae filter whereas the park venue leads to the park default job in the invite over section and points to a ctyae filter that doesn't allow toddlers.
