So the first male that was not a teen or elder that went passed the house was Knox Greenberg. I used my strategy from the serial romantic aspiration. So did a few friendly interactions and then a romantic embrace, after the embrace asked to go on a date at my sim's home. Bought two of the flirty emotion lamps and got flirting.
https://i.imgur.com/7o9Lv9Q.png
then try for baby, she is pregnant with baby nr 1 :)
https://i.imgur.com/MVwGYAl.png
Another reason I did the date at home is because its easy to get a gold and then you get a very expensive reward you can sell for money ;)
https://i.imgur.com/WOyBG4A.png