attractiveness system what we hope in the future

I have this attractiveness as part of the game and I absolutely think it's sad and shallow and I don't appreciate how the game finds some of my most beautiful sims "basic" or "unattractive." Even sims that are in serious relationships see them as unattractive. How can I get rid of this feature completely? Please tell me how to get rid of this and if this is released by EA isn't a little rude to look at people in one way or the other? Isn't that kind of like promoting bullying?