Don't listen to them. Maxis Favorited uploads get the most grief. They are salty llamas that are just looking for a reason to put someone down they don't even know in real life. So what, you made a white family. Surprise! There are white families in this world and deserved to be made into Sims just like everyone else. The whole boys vs. girls (for many families) is a tradition. My best friend's family did that when we all went bowling when I was younger.
Ignore it. You have more stressful things going on rather than to worry about what some keyboard warriors think of you. I'm sorry to hear about your brother, and I pray you find either some hope or closure. <3
