About pictures vs. posts, I completely understand people not having time or the desire to read a long post, but (and maybe I'm wrong) even accounting for that, I still feel an interest/quality gap that I'd like to close a bit more.
Does Adelise have any friends outside her family? I feel like she needs someone she isn't related to (or married to) that she can confide in and feel connected to.
Unfortunately, no, not really… The family is so big that just keeping up with relatives is a challenge. Their home is also isolated without any neighbors and she doesn't have an outside job, so it's hard to have friends.
I also kinda want her to just dump Asher, hard, but I know that may not really fit the character. Some people just don't consider divorce an option no matter what happens.
Even though it would be greatly obnoxious to me as a player, I will let this couple break up if it's necessary. After this happened in game, I thought they might get divorced, but we're not quite there yet.