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taoron24121
Seasoned Ace
6 years ago

Why disable Commenting?

I am very much enjoying looking at the creations of others, and exploring all there is out there to see and learn. But, I don't understand why so many people disable commenting, in their Catalog. I find it difficult to care to spend the time going through their creations and to try to communicate, when they lock their doors and seal their blinds, to not let anyone in, when there are so many others who are so kind, talented and who communicate back and forth.

Am I alone? Why do people do this?

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  • I think there are plenty of reasons. Bullying is definitely one - people might have been subjected to it and chose to shut the doors to the possibility of a repeat, or they might be turning off commenting as a preemptive measure.

    Another is anxiety. It's one thing to put creations on the gallery for others to see and a whole another to get comments (good and bad) and deal with those. Not everyone is built to be able to deal with that. It may seem easy and awesome to want to encourage someone or send praise (and thank you everyone who does that) but for some people, it comes with the feeling of obligation to respond to those comments which can be hard. (I've had a few comments on mine and I inevitably a) don't know whether I should or shouldn't reply since you can't @ users on there to notify them, b) felt guilty when I didn't. It's complicated.

    But I'm sure there are some people who just don't want the comments, don't care for them, don't want the notifications (since it's only a "everything on or everything off" option on the gallery).

    The reporting tool on the gallery also needs a major overhaul, honestly. It's been misused way too much.
  • I'm now reminded that I need to go on the gallery and thin out the comments for my builds.

    Overall I feel like comments sections just aren't adequate as a tool to build community. At least on the forum it's easier to have conversations and I can see how people are progressing in their build knowledge. When they get to a Sims 5 gallery I feel like a fave and download button is enough.
  • "wendyology;c-17278275" wrote:
    I'm now reminded that I need to go on the gallery and thin out the comments for my builds.

    Overall I feel like comments sections just aren't adequate as a tool to build community. At least on the forum it's easier to have conversations and I can see how people are progressing in their build knowledge. When they get to a Sims 5 gallery I feel like a fave and download button is enough.


    I agree. I often ask people either to come here or Facebook, when they want to actually talk about something, or need help. Bouncing back and forth is a bit of a pain.

    @Pamtastic72 Wow. That person sounds like they could use some help. I'll be sure to keep an eye out for that.

    @darrenfroggy I get that. I get that way too. I'll see things here that I don't comment on right away and I feel bad, even though I'm sitting here and I can see it. I might be in a build at that moment. I might have my feet up on the desk and watching a show or a movie. I do try to get to it, eventually. Same in my Catalog. If people comment, I feel compelled to go say HI and reciprocate. It may take me a day or two, but I get around to it.

    I think the community at large is great, compared to some, in some games. Of course, in any large gathering of humans, there will always be a few who just can't go with the flow and have to be difficult, hateful, mean spirited, whatever. I've played a lot of games over the past 20-some-odd years, with some pretty awful communities. Some were great. Most were pretty bad. I didn't even bother with the forums here until recently and I'm glad I did. It's led me to other resources like the Facebook Builder's Group which is wonderfully active and I created an Instagram account (I didn't even know what that was until then) and picked up a bunch of new followers and have been able to share with even more people; taught me a lot about building, got to be able to meet and chat with a lot of really cool people (that would be you guys) and, of course, given my ego a little pat on the back from time to time too, which after falling into a deep, dark pit of depression a couple of years ago and eventually climbing back out, could use a little pat every now and again. So, all in all, so far, over the past couple of months, the experience has been a major positive.

    I really appreciate all of the feedback. I've learned a lot. Thank you!
  • I don't know how many lots I've downloaded from the gallery where the only (recent) comments are line after line after line of song lyrics or memes, and nothing helpful regarding the lot itself, not even a "Thanks so much! I love this restaurant/house/park/etc!".

    I can understand why some creators don't want to enable comments.