Send teens to prom rabbit hole

I wish they would do this, too! I've been searching for a mod for it, but I can't find one. I wish it would still give the options to go to prom or skip it, but I wish there was an option to send them alone because sometimes I'm busy with the others in the household and don't want to leave the lot, but I hate the teen has to skip prom because of this. I would also like if it gave me the pop-up chance cards while they were away, so they could come back with different moodlets, depending how prom went, but I would still be happy, even if we didn't get the pop-ups.