Things that don't make sense.

There are numerous issues in the game that bother me because they quite simply do not make any sense. For a start, if I set my Sim's sexuality to straight, I don't expect them to then find the same sex attractive and develop a crush on them that I cannot get rid off no matter how hard I try. Same for if a Sim is gay etc, they should not have a crush on a straight Sim and flirt with them. I have given them that orientation for a reason. I make Sims dislike mischief, yet they are all constantly doing mischief interactions! A snobby Sim who dislikes rascals and mischievous behaviour shouldn't then use the air horn on another Sim and lie about their career! And they also end up developing the Mischief skill which I do not want them to have and they wouldn't have! Having the ability to edit a Sim's personality in detail seems pointless when things like this happen regardless of the boundaries you put in place and it's irritating me because I feel like my Sims end up becoming a person I don't want them to be. Why do we only have 1 Sim hour to finish the Prom activities before the king and queen are announced? Surely there should be more time for eating and drinking, mingling etc. I could go on and on but there are so many things like this that just do not make sense and really affect my gameplay and enjoyment of the game. I realise this isn't a bug report and is more of a general rant but I feel like some of this has got to be related to bugs or issues with the game? I do not play with Mods or CC. Game is up to date.